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So You Want to Be a Law Student:
Secrets from the Inside
(Continued from 1)
Now that I have had some time to reflect on the last
three years, I realize that there were a few things
I wish I would have known before starting law school.
Below is a list of five issues that anyone desiring
to go to law school should consider before starting
the journey:
- The Financial Cost. Law school
costs moneylots of money. Be prepared to encounter
some sticker shock at the bursars office. The
decision whether to spend the familys savings
(if available) or request financial
aid is a difficult one. Even with a scholarship,
the cost of tuition can be very burdensome. Many law
schools suggest that first year full-time law students
do not work while attending classes. This may mean
that the law students family has to figure out
how to live on one persons salary or if the
family should take out additional student loans for
living expenses.
- The Family Cost. Law school was
difficult, not just because of the stress or studying,
but also because of the time it took away from my
family. There may be many days when it seems easier
to quit and go back to a former career. Law school
can take an emotional toll, not just on the student,
but on the students family as well. Everyone
needs to be aware beforehand of the burden of constant
studying, the new peer group, and the lack of time
for regular activities. Finding a balance between
the demands of studying and family time can be hard,
but it is necessary if one is to survive law school.
And survival of law school equals a degree that will
open up new doors of opportunity, both professionally
and financially.
- The Personal Cost. The first year
of law school can seem daunting because it is similar
to being dropped off in a foreign country without
speaking the native language. The professors ask questions
that seem unanswerable, the workload seems insurmountable,
and classmates can turn into competitors at the drop
of the first textbook.
But eventually, the questions are not as scary, and
the competitors become allies who help each other
in a pinch, all pulling together for the same end:
graduation. Though ones confidence may wane
at first, a completed law degree will do more than
restore it.
- The Professional Cost. Having already
begun a career for myself, I had a hard time giving
up a steady paycheck in exchange for unknown territory.
However, getting a law degree opens up more doors
than just becoming a practicing attorney. Any career
is sure to be enhanced, from becoming a politician
to teaching in a university to being a CEO of a major
corporation. Anyone with a J.D. behind his or her
name will find no shortage of interesting opportunities
waiting upon completion of law school.
- The Physical Cost. Long hours
spent studying meant I became less physically active.
There will be late night study sessions with those
just out of undergrad who can still pack away nine
pieces of pizza, get one hour of sleep, and still
sound brilliant when grilled by the professor. However,
three years of poor nutrition and sleep deprivation
is not the key to law school success. Taking just
a few minutes to stretch or walk around will have
an energizing effect on both the physical body and
the mental processes. Eating healthy meals and trying
to get plenty of rest will also help reduce stress
and keep the body in good working condition during
school.
If all of these issues can be resolved in favor of attending
law school, then go for it! Law school can be one of the
best learning experiences and graduation is a well-deserved
reward. The successful law student is not necessarily
the most brilliant; more likely, he or she is persistent,
not scared of hard work, and is unwilling to give up.
Marching down the aisle with my classmates while my husband,
son, and the rest of my friends and family looked on made
me understand the biggest secret of all: that law school
is worth it.
Meredith Beeby Edmison, J.D., graduated with her law
degree on May 14, 2005. She is Executive Director of
The Wegener Foundation, Inc., a non-profit organization
in Oklahoma City, where she lives with Mike (the husband),
Jack (the son), and Oscar (the Wonder Dog).
See
Also How I Got into Law School
at 47.
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